Nobody who lost it saw it coming
Every person who ever rode one stock down believed in that company. They were not reckless. They were right, for years, and they were rewarded for it. That is the part people miss. The position got this large because you were correct.
The risk was never that the company is bad. It is that one decision, made by people you will never meet, in a room you are not in, can reprice your entire life before lunch. A missed quarter. A contract that does not renew. A competitor. A short report. A change of mind about what the whole sector is worth.
None of that requires the business to fail. It only requires the market to change its mind.
You do not have to be wrong about the company to be wrong about the size of the bet.
The tax bill is the price of making that bet smaller. It is a number you can see, plan around, and spread across years. The other number arrives on a Tuesday with no warning, and it takes the retirement date with it.
Enron in 2001. Lehman in 2008. Both were blue chips the week before. Anyone holding a large position did not get a warning, and did not get a second chance. This is the version everyone already knows about, and it is the one people assume could never happen to the stock they own.
The second one is the risk almost nobody prices in, because it does not require anything bad to happen to the company. It only requires the market to have paid too much once. You cannot know from the inside whether that is happening now, and neither can I. That is the entire reason position size matters.